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Less
than 8% of New Year resolutions are kept. Only half last to the end of January.
Even when it's about going for a job promotion or personal development to
enhance our own life, we procrastinate.
What is the
source that stops us following through on what we want to do?
Top of
the list are self-protective, unconscious
COMPETING COMMITMENTS. For instance, giving up smoking may be more about
losing valued social interactions during smoke breaks than about habit or
addiction.
You may
have complaints about your work. Did you know that every complaint implies a
commitment? For example a boss complained that "My team members don't speak up
at meetings". This implies that he believes in open and candid interactions. And
yet he regularly "shot the messenger." His unrecognised Big Assumptions around
why he behaved like that, pervaded his managing practice, limiting his and his
team's effectiveness.
There
are 20 identifiable career stallers, categorised as "trouble with
people" or "trouble with results" that we can help you uncover. Then comes the
hard part, where you put a new Big Assumption in place, make modest tests in a
safe environment of a new approach, and then consciously practice until your
emotions catch up with your new rational insight.
Our experience
in coaching such personal transitions & transformations has found they can
deeply affect the work environment. We help managers start public interactions
that create a context supportive of high performance. We support the inner
conversations a manager must have to re-generate those automatic Big
Assumptions.
Email
Kevin Conroy:
info@career-acceleration.com |